Your Questions About Abusive Husband

Lizzie asks…
Can a lawyer be disbarred of being an abusive husband?
Can a lawyer be disbarred of being an abusive husband? And also if he acted unethical to the family members?

admin answers:
Not unless such behavior was either illegal (a criminal conviction will cause a lawyer to be disbarred), or was unethical in terms of his professional conduct. Lying to your family is meaningless. Lying to a JUDGE about family could be an issue.

Susan asks…
what is the personality profile of an abusive husband?
what is the personality profile of an abusive husband?
why do they abusive their wife but treat the others nicely?

admin answers:
Its called time to get your self a man who appreciates you for what you are and treats you nice gives you Flowers and a massarge now and again i bet yore always arguing. The names i would give him are psycho skitso mad man.

Ken asks…
Can I take my kids away from my abusive husband legally?
My sister has an abusive husband and they have 2 kids 2gether. They live in Texas but she wants to secretly leave to California and take the kids without her husband knowing. Is it legal for her to do that without getting in trouble? Is that considered kidnapping. Just last night the police were called and a domestic violence was filed against her husband.

admin answers:
If they’re still married and living together…(not separated, not divorcing, no custody issues in a court system)… Then it’s **NOT** kidnapping.
It’s perfectly legal and she has every right to take her children wherever she chooses and doesn’t need his permission nor some court order.
However, that can change if he gets one “whiff” of an idea that she’s getting ready to flee.

Richard asks…
why are women always sad when their abusive husband is gone?
I was with my husband for 10 years all of them abusive. I didn’t want to be with him any more. But now that I’m outta that situation, I’m really sad.

admin answers:
Odds are, what you actually need to grieve is the loss of your dreams, hopes, and plans, not the loss of the abuser. When life totally does not go the way you wanted it to go and expected it to go, it sucks, and it’s sad. If you’re like a lot of abused women, you probably often thought along the way that things were going to change and get better, but they never did and it had to end. So, here you are starting all over, and that’s tough. Go easy on yourself. You deserve to let yourself have a good cry if you want one.

Daniel asks…
How do I avoid sex with my abusive husband while preparing to secretly divorce?
I am fed up with my abusive husband(mainly verbal and mental but has been physical years ago). Even though I’m scared ass hell I am planning to divorce him as soon as I can. My kids and I will move in with my mom until I feel ready to have a place of my own. My problem is that we haven’t had sex in about a month and he is getting tired of my excuses. To make it even worse I really want to have sex because I need it too and I don’t want to cheat. I think that if we have sex he will go back to thinking that I’m ok and that I want to stay with him and put up with his bullshit. I sometimes find it hard to separate my emotions from sex. I don’t want to fall into the trap of thinking things could be better because the sex is really the only good thing between us. I think that is why we are still together to this day. I wonder if it’s wrong to have sex with him while I’m here even though I’m going to leave him?

admin answers:
Girl you needs to make up your mind to leave if he is abusive as you say ,then leave for the sake of the kids but if you chooses to stay then talk to him about how you are feeling. Sex is not everything, when you are not happy .
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