Your Questions About Abusive Women
Maria asks…
Why Are SOME Men Attracted To Abusive Women?
A woman is 47 and she has 3 children, uneducated, raised off the street meaning she has street smarts, and not pretty, and is abusive, and destroys marriages.
I am asking what kind of men would date her? I mean psychologicaly wise? If they know this about her, why then , don’t they run???
admin answers:
Because, he grew up with that same behavior, his mother treated his father like that. The dysfunction keeps going, generation to generation. He feels comfortable with this behavior. Do not try to change him, only he can change if he Wants To.
Thomas asks…
why does society view abusive behavior amongst women more serious then women against men?
Why does society view abusive behavior more serious when a man abuses a women, but when a woman is physically abusive to a man they take it as something so non important. Some laugh even! What is your response?
i agree when krute said that there are some woman whom are a bit more built than men are…i saw a documentary where a female stabbed her bf and he ended up dying. So take that into consideration when answering this question.
admin answers:
In general, it’s because of what many of your other responders have said about the guy being generally stronger and bigger than the female. So if a guy is being abused it’s considered un-manly which is why it goes unreported frequently if the man is being abused.
The point I would like to make that I don’t think anyone has made yet is that there are women who are physically stronger and larger than some men. Also, our upbringing has much to do with it. If a man was brought up to respect and NEVER hit a woman, then some guys view that as meaning never…not even if she is hitting you. It is similar to a guy trying to get lucky but the woman says no. No means no and never means never!
John asks…
How is asking if physically abusive women can make good mothers ‘man-bashing’?
By that token, is asking if physically abusive men can make good fathers ‘woman-bashing’?
Ok Eoghan, is asking if Christians can make good parents ‘Buddhist bashing’?
Does being condescending towards anti-feminists = ‘man-bashing’?
By that token, does being condescending towards feminists = ‘woman-bashing’?
alion300 – no i didnt get it either 
cassius – well i think this is one time we are in agreement
admin answers:
It is not (lol)
But concerning as why you are asking this question, well, it doesn’t matter what you ask in GWS, it will be considered by some as man-bashing, or man-hating or man-discrimination.
It is another way of attracting attention, really a waste of time. Your questions are valid. Some of the answers you got are just plainly ridiculous
Linda asks…
Why do women put up with abusive and cheating partners?
I could never understand how a woman could sit back and allow herself to be used as a punching bag. So why do women stay with abusive men? And why do they keeping going back to a man who has no respect for them?
admin answers:
Stupidity. Plain and simple. It works both ways. I’ve been in abusive relationships with women multiple times and I’ve been stupid enough to keep going back. Part of it is confidence and self-esteem. If you have a low opinion of yourself, you keep going back because you don’t think you can get anything better.
In my case, it is because I was stupid enough to have faith in the goodness of people in general. The cold hard truth is that there are a lot of scumbags out there, and chances of running into one is very high.
With all due respect, your question is loaded because it implies that men are the disrespectful ones and that women are blameless. It goes both ways my friend. Take care!
Susan asks…
How come so many men think it’s alright to be physically and emotionally abusive towards women?
I think husbands should stop beating their wives and being emotionally abusive. If my dad ever hit my mom I would drop him like a sack of potatoes.
admin answers:
Great question!
As some of the posters above said it’s probably what they experienced growing up in an environment where the male was superior and abused his wife. The children followed suit thinking it was ok.
I think it has to do a lot with culture and religion. In eastern cultures the male is usually considered superior and thus he thinks it’s ok to hit women. An example that comes to mind is SOME Muslims condone hitting their wives.
I find this to be true in western cultures as well but more so in eastern cultures and religions.
Women are generally considered inferior in many cultures. I know that the older generations especially think this to be true. The times are changing. Women have come a long way to try to level the playing field. I think they still have a ways to go.
I would lay my dad out in a heartbeat if he ever laid a hand on my mom or sister.
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