Your Questions About She S Out Of Control
Mark asks…
How to control an excited 3 year old Lab mix.She looks forward to her walks and for some reason here lately?
she gets over excited .I can’t get out of the door without her jumping on me and barking. It’s only when we get ready to walk .She goes crazy.I have ignord her, and even stopped in place for a few minutes before going out the door.But the moment I open the door she continues to jump and bark on me.Do you know of a way to control this behavior?
admin answers:
She has control at this point. Make her sit with the leash on. This is not going to be a quick fix. So you may want to work on it at times you are not taking her for a walk. When you reach for the door and if she starts to jump close door and make her sit again. Until you can open door without her getting all excited. Then you step thru door and she still sits until you tell her lets go. Give her a treat and praise. This is why i say work on it even if you aren’t going for a walk. Every time she sits and doesn’t move give her a treat and she will not know if you are going or not.
Right now when she sees the leash it means a walk so you have to break the pattern.
Linda asks…
How can one control their fear when having an out of body experience?
I will leave out names for privacy reasons.
I have a friend who has had OBE’s as a child, and has recently had another experience. She does not drink or do drugs.
She mentioned that in this recent experience, she felt no attachment to her body, and while viewing from across the room she witnessed a whole conversation her friend was having with her, yet she did not know who these people were. She felt no emotional attachment to her body.
The friend she was conversing with said she looked zoned out, then she snapped out of it, when this look of fear entered her eyes.
She asked if I could give her some insight, and I thought this would be a place to start.
She mentioned to me that these experiences come and go, and that she does not have any way to control it. Is there some type of training for this stuff.
admin answers:
Tell your friend this, that is not real! True, it happens sometimes. But it is better not to waste time about it. Becuase it might put her in danger. Remember this, someone might steal her body if she doesn’t stop.
“There is nothing to fear but fear itself!” > this statement is 100% true. We are the ones who creates our fear. Your friend seems to be having the spiritual awakening. That is good. Let your friend answer this > WHO AM I?
Nancy asks…
my rabbit is out of control! she’s 4 months old and is constantly spraying on the sofa, how can stop her?
admin answers:
Block access to sofa-can be as simple as putting cheap vinyl tablecloth on top, or cardboard boxes, to making a wire fence from NIC panels. If you can discourage her for a few weeks or months, she might forget about this. And of course, make appointment to have her spayed, asap!
For many answers to behavior questions including hormonal ones, and also how to bunny proof home, go to:
http://homepage.mac.com/mattocks/morfz/rabrefs.html
Sandy asks…
Is it safe to ejaculate inside my girlfriend while she’s on the birth control pill?
I usually pull out, but I’ve been reading up on it, and apparently if she‘s on birth control she has the same chance of getting pregnant whether I pull out or not. Which is like a 1-3% chance. She‘s also been taking birth control for 2 years sooooo…. I need some outside opinions.
admin answers:
Okay, when people get pregnant, usually they missed to many, stopped taking because they wanted a baby and never told their guy, or were on a medication that interfered. I say go for it! The next time you make love to here, have sex the way nature intended and give it to her. I love it when my guy goes inside of me, I love feeling the warmth and I love how he got to enjoy himself without worrying about where the load was going.
Goodluck,
-Gina
Richard asks…
Is military school or boot camp the answer for an out of control teen?
What are some alternatives?
By out of control I mean he smokes pot and steals the $ to get it from his parents. He tells his mother that she is a joke and threatens to hurt her. He’s failed in school 4 years in a row, but then scrapes by in summer school. He shot out all the windows of the house with a pellet gun. If he is told to do anything he tells his parents to F off. He keeps talking about how he can’t wait until he’s 16 so he can drop out of school.
They had him on a PINS petition, but that didn’t help at all. He convinced the officer that his mother was the one that was lying and everyone felt bad for him. The officer told his mother that she had no right to tell him what time to go to bed or eat dinner.
He is a MONSTER. She calls the police on him all the time, and so do other relatives. It’s strange, for some reason the cops just tell him to cut it out. And he’s on a PINS!!
PINS = Person in need of supervision. It’s a service in NY state for parents with kids like this. It’s a lot like probation. If he does anything wrong, he’s supposed to go to Juvanile Hall, but it never happens.
admin answers:
I would have that kid in “Brat Camp” so fast he wouldn’t know what hit him. If you’re not familiar with “Brat Camp” you can google it. Basically, it’s a wilderness camp where kids have to learn to cooperate and follow the rules to survive. A family in our church did that to their daughter a few years ago because she was lying, stealing, drugs etc……she has now graduated from college and doing quite well for herself. She hated her parents for awhile for sending her there but now she’d be the first to tell you that it turned her life around.
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